Scary Girls

I keep over hearing or encountering scary scenarios involving juvenile girls and, frankly, it fills me with fear for my future......  I over heard one teenage girl telling her mum 'I am never going to be able to trust you again', whilst at a kinder birthday party all the girls commandeered the bouncy castle whilst the Leader bossed them about, my 3 year old was quite distraught as they wouldn't let him bounce :-(.  I don't like tutus or head bows. What am I to do.  I will just have to enjoy her now.